When do you need to know if I am coming?
By Friday, 4 September 2026. Final numbers go to both hotels shortly after that, and we cannot add seats once they are locked. If your plans are still uncertain, tell us now anyway — a maybe is far more useful to us than silence.
Can I bring a plus-one?
If your invitation includes one, it will say so by name on the envelope, and you will be able to enter their details in the RSVP form below. We have kept the guest list small so the weekend feels like a group of people who know each other rather than a crowd.
Are children invited?
Yes — children are very welcome at every part of the weekend. Add them in the RSVP with their ages so we can arrange the right seating and food, and tell us if you would like us to organise a sitter for the evening.
Can you help me get a better rate at the hotels?
We can try. Pick the hotel you are interested in from the dropdown in the RSVP and we will add your name to the wedding block and ask. We cannot promise anything — December is peak season in Nusa Dua — but we have had some success, and it costs nothing to ask.
What happens if it rains?
December showers in Bali are short and dramatic and usually over before you have finished your drink. The chapel is covered, and both venues hold indoor ballrooms on standby for the reception. Nothing gets cancelled; it simply moves inside for an hour.
How do I get between the ceremony and the reception?
There are three and a half hours between the two, which is deliberate — go back to your hotel, swim, sleep it off. Transportation to the St. Regis leaves at 5:00 pm, and shuttles run back to the main Nusa Dua hotels at the end of the night. There is no need to book a car.
Is there a gift registry?
Flying to Bali is a generous enough gift on its own, and we would far rather have you there than have anything shipped. If you would still like to mark the day, we have set up a small fund for the honeymoon — email us and we will send the details.
Can I take photographs during the ceremony?
We would love you to be fully present for the hour in the chapel, so we are asking for phones away during the ceremony itself — our photographer has it covered. Afterwards, please take everything you like and send it all to us.
I have a dietary requirement. Will that be a problem?
Not at all. Vegetarian, vegan, Jain, halal, gluten-free and allergy-specific menus are all straightforward at both venues. Tell us in the RSVP and it will be arranged — please be specific about allergies rather than preferences, so the kitchens know where to be careful.
Who do I ask about something not covered here?
Write to us at ask@ashwedsel.com. We read everything, and we would much rather answer a question twice than have you guess.